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Lived · Built · Designed · Renovated · Maintained
Some decisions close
for good.
The drywall does not reopen. Neither does the slab, the framing or the rough-in. You do not have to decide everything today, only the next thing, and we put it on your table while it is still a decision.
Philip
Drafted homes and commercial buildings for years before he built two of his own.
Kendra
On job sites since she was ten. Now helps people get clear before they commit.
Your next step
In focus
Garage configuration
Garage choice affects home layout, storage and daily convenience. Consider vehicle count, storage needs and site constraints.
“So many decisions. We were paralyzed.”
“We love it. We just wish we had known.”
“It was $200k more than we expected.”
“By the time I asked, it was too late.”
The spine of your build
What closes at each stage.What closes at each stage, and what it takes with it.
Now · 14 open
Design and pre-construction
Garage, windows, staircase, reserve.
Next
Framing
Ceiling heights, island clearance.
Then
Rough-in
Outlets, drains, lighting. Cheap now, opened wall later.
The wall closes
Drywall
Eight kitchen decisions gone.
Last
Finishes
Faucets, paint, tile. Where the budget goes.
Two things we got wrong
None of them were bad taste.
All of them were bad timing.
The decision was made three weeks before we knew it existed.
Nobody hid it from us. The framer just needed an answer, and the question had never reached our side of the table. This usually shows up later as a wall you cannot move and a bill you did not plan for.
So each decision arrives in the order the house needs it, with the four things it moves listed underneath.
Pull one thread
Kitchen island
Island clearance
Locked · reasoning saved
Your kitchen allowances
Kitchen faucet
Locks at cabinet order
Pendant lighting
Locks at rough-in
Cabinet hardware
Still open
Keep 10 to 15% in reserve. Every build finds something.
The allowance was a number. Not a faucet.
$350 for a kitchen faucet reads fine in a contract. It buys the one you would replace in a year. The gap is not a surprise to your builder, it is only a surprise to you, and it arrives as a change order in the worst possible week.
So we price the thing you actually want, next to the number in the contract, months early.
Room by room
Every space carries
its own decisions.
Twenty spaces in a typical build. We keep each one's open questions in one place, and tell you which close first.
Foyer
4 decisions
Laundry room
2 decisions
3 car garage
2 decisions
His closet
3 decisions
Office
2 decisions
20 spaces
Why this is not your builder's job
Two different questions.
What a task list does
Tells you what is late.
Your builder already has one, and it is good at its job. It tracks the schedule. It does not know that your island clearance quietly decided your cabinet configuration, and it will not ask you the question three weeks early.
What we do
Tells you what is next, and what it costs to be wrong.
One decision at a time, with the four things it moves listed underneath, and your reasoning saved for the day your builder asks why.
Where it stops
Does not replace your team.
We will not prevent every regret, and we are honest about that. We do not replace your architect or your builder, we do not manage their schedule, and we cannot make a hard trade-off painless. What we can do is make sure no decision reaches you for the first time on the day it is due.
Who is behind this
Two people. Both sides of the table.
We are Philip and Kendra Jarrell. Between us we have lived in, planned, drawn, built, renovated and maintained more homes and buildings than we kept a count of. Our own and other people's. Not one of them taught us the same lesson twice.
Philip Jarrell
The plans and the consequences
I drew homes and commercial buildings for a living before I ever built one of my own, and I learned plumbing, HVAC and electrical loads from the tradesmen who had to make my drawings work. For the last twenty years I have been a principal software engineer, mapping systems where one change quietly breaks something three layers down. A house is the same shape of problem. That is why HouseChalk maps consequences instead of listing tasks.
Kendra Jarrell
The decisions and the weight of them
I have been on job sites since I was ten, and I have spent my career helping people get clear on what no longer fits before they commit to anything. I know what it is to be the one holding every open question, because I have been her.
Author of Becoming Home · consultwithkendra.com
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